Have you ever caught yourself saying, “It’s not a big deal,” even when it was?
Or shrinking back from opportunities because you didn’t want to “seem like too much”?
Or say, “I’m fine,” when you’re not.
If so, you’re not alone.
Many Christian women struggle with minimizing themselves, often in the name of humility or harmony. But minimizing who God created you to be isn’t holy—it’s harmful.
Minimizing yourself often comes from a deeper belief that your presence, voice, or purpose is somehow “too much.” These beliefs are rooted in:
• Past criticism or rejection
• Codependent tendencies
• Fear of outshining others
• Misinterpreted teachings about humility
🛑 Truth: God never asked you to shrink. He asked you to shine!
Humility is rooted in truth—it acknowledges both your strengths and your dependence on God. Hiding, however, masks your gifts out of fear or insecurity.
Scriptures to Declare:
“I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” — Psalm 139:14
“You are the light of the world. A city that is set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do they light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a lampstand” -Matthew 5:14-16.
🌸 It’s OK to Take Up Holy Space
🪷 Practice saying YES to what God has put on your heart—even if it feels uncomfortable.
🪷 Speak up in rooms where you’re tempted to stay silent.
🪷 Ask for what you need.
🪷 Make the decision.
🪷 Write the book.
🪷 Take the lead.
You don’t have to downplay your voice, your gifts, or your calling.
You were never meant to be hidden—you were meant to be whole.
✨ Stop shrinking to fit spaces you were called to expand. ✨